Jim Staley·Tuesday, March 14, 2017
Why Bad Things Happen to Good People
Let’s say a friend of yours has something tragic happen to them. Their spouse leaves, or they lose a child, or the one making the only income for the family loses their job. You hear what happened and find yourself wondering why. They’re good people! Why did this happen to them? There can be little doubt that most people have asked this question at one time or another. Sometimes we observe something tragic happen to someone we believe is a good person or tragedy happens to us and we cannot fully comprehend why the seemingly terrible circumstance has entered our world. This creates the “Why?” question and will be the subject of this series of articles.
The importance of finding an answer to this question cannot be underestimated. There have been an incalculable number of people from all walks of life – clergy, laity, even non-believers – who have walked away from any desire to know God because of their assessment that whatever evil has befallen someone should not have happened, and God is obviously not worth serving if He allows such atrocities.
Unfortunately, the church has done a terrible job of answering this question and so leaves a person on shaky ground to begin with, his feet not securely planted and prepared for such calamity. It is my prayer that by the time we are finished with this series, this question will not only be answered, but your own feet will be set firmly in position and your heart and mind will draw closer to the Father.
As many of you know, I am a formulaic person and as a teacher, I look for patterns and formulas in the bible that I can translate into use within the parameters of my own life as well as the lives of others. And just like math equations, if you break the formula or change a variable in the formula, the result will undoubtedly change. So it is with this question. And in order to properly answer it, we must first understand the formula for how God Himself thinks as well as how He views such situations. Once we understand His original intent in allowing such calamities and why He created human beings to begin with, the final result follows the formula without fail, answering this question and so many more. Get the first part of the equation wrong and the entire process fails miserably, leaving us with doubt, pain, more questions, and further distance between us and the Creator.
So before we start unpacking the formula to answer this age-old question, it is first necessary to point out that the question itself is flawed on two points.
First, it assumes that what has happened is, in fact, “bad” and it assumes that the person is, in fact, “good.” Both of these assumptions are based on our personal deductions of both the event and the person, which are, in turn, based on our own opinions of what good and bad actually are.
Good and bad are relative terms that mean different things to different people, the definitions based solely on the information one has within his scope of understanding. For instance, when Joseph’s brothers first threw him into the well, someone looking at it from Joseph’s perspective could easily say that that was “bad.” But someone who knows the rest of the story could just as easily say that it was the best thing that ever happened not only to him but also to the entire nation of Israel.
How could the same situation be looked at with such polar opposite lenses? Because one person has more information from which to make a final determination.
In short, if one understands the end of every story, he can be in the position to make a proper analysis. What most of us do is pre-judge a situation without knowing the end. We make assumptions, determinations, and judgments based on our own perspective, a perspective that is human, limited, and cannot see an ending that has not yet surfaced. In order for us to really answer this question, we must temporarily get rid of our perspective and focus on the Creator’s perspective.
FIRST THINGS FIRST
In my opinion, one of the most fundamental principles, if not the most fundamental principle, is that the Creator is benevolent and can be nothing but benevolent. The entire bible and how we relate to Him is determined by how much we believe that foundational principle. Our worldview is attached to how we view the Creator, so it goes without saying that having the proper view of God is paramount to viewing ourselves and the events that happen in our lives properly. We will come back to this concept in a moment.
Second, it is important to understand that Yahweh is perfect and perfectly whole. There is no shifting shadow or void within His essence. This means that He has no needs. There is nothing that is wanting inside of Him, and therefore there is nothing we can give Him that He does not already have.
I often ask people why God created man to begin with. I receive all kinds of answers: everything from “God wants us to love Him” to “God wanted people to have relationship with” to “It was a cosmic experiment.”
Although some of the answers people give are, in fact, true, they’re not THE answer. The real answer is that God operates within the law of giving and not in the law of receiving like us humans. (You’ll grasp this quickly if you’ve read the Joseph Formula series of articles.)
Because Yahweh is perfectly whole and not in need of anything, His entire reason for creating humans was to give from His overflowing nature of benevolence into our needy vessels of reception.
This goes back to our number one fundamental law of the universe: God can be nothing but benevolent and everything He does fits into the perfect goodness of His character. It’s only from our perspective that the things He does or allows are negative. But once we believe with all our hearts that God is good and good all the time, his emotions will be shaped by that fact no matter what happens.
THE DANGER OF THE QUESTION
Most of the time, when we experience something terrible or hear of a terrible thing happening to someone we believe is a “good” person, we ask “Why?” or even “How could God let this happen?”
These questions are almost unequivocally asked in frustration. The reason they’re so dangerous and ultimately cause so many people to leave the faith or become distanced from the Creator is because they erode the very foundational principle that we have just discussed, namely that God is always benevolent and cannot give anything to His children that is not from His good nature.
The second that we even entertain the question of why “bad” things happen to “good” people, we are, in fact, doubting the very existence of God. How? Because, at that moment, what we’re really saying is, “If God is really a good God, how could He let this happen?” Then, by logical deduction, what we’re concluding without realizing it is, “And since I believe that a good God would never let this happen and what has happened is, in my view, evil, He is not a good God and I cannot serve a God that is not good.” So the questions create doubt about the most important aspect of the Creator: His goodness.
It’s perfectly fine to ask “Why?” if we sincerely want to learn more about why the situation happened so we can make necessary corrections through the process. But the moment we enter the “Why me?” area, we are in dangerous waters because in the process of questioning the Creator about why He’s chosen to allow an event to happen to us, what we’re really saying is that we don’t deserve whatever is happening to us. This is taking the position that we’re innocent and God is therefore unjust for allowing the circumstance into our lives.
If someone is arrested by the police because they’re selling drugs, he doesn’t ask the officer why. He knows what he did was wrong. But if he’s not selling drugs, he has every right to ask the officer why he’s being arrested because he sincerely doesn’t know. We can ask other humans “Why?” all day long. But when it comes to the Creator, we are to always assume that there is good reason for Him allowing trials and take the position that “all things work together for good for those that are called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28) and thank Him for His goodness and the ability to be elevated through this situation.
DOUBT IS REASONABLE
When we face a situation that seems bad it’s reasonable to conclude, “This event is negative and therefore cannot be from God.” The problem is that the God of the bible does not operate within reason. And if we follow Him we are to “walk by faith and not by sight” (2 Cor. 5:7). Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us that we should “lean not on [our] own understanding, but in all [our] ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct [our paths].”
Yahweh simply doesn’t operate based on logic, our finite understanding, our time tables, or our reason. He operates “above reason,” in the same area in which we are called to operate, an area called faith.
Was it reasonable or logical for God to tell Moses to strike the rock for water, to part the Red Sea, to have the Israelites put blood on their door posts, or to walk around Jericho seven times and just shout? He is not a God that lives in the natural. He lives in the supernatural and His entire motive is to draw us above reason into His realm. What doubt does is force us to stay in the natural, in the realm of reason, and to use our physical senses to try to “understand” or “figure it out.” This will leave us frustrated, angry, and distanced from Him.
In the first chapter of his book, James says, “For he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. Let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord. He is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways” (James 1:6-8). Although doubt is reasonable, it is not within the realm of the righteous. And if and when a man does doubt, that doubt must be overcome by pleading with the Father to provide divine assistance to help bring him back into the realm of faith, or, at the very least, to help send him the answers that will assist his carnal mind in rising above reason and back into faith where God lives.
So first things first. When we encounter something we perceive as negative in our lives or the lives of others, we must never doubt the fact that for those who have been purchased by the blood of Messiah:
1. Everything that happens to us is from Him (Psalm 37:23), and
2. Everything that is from Him is good (Psalm 73:1).
For those who may already be struggling with believing those two foundational principles, let me take the time to explain why they’re true. We will do this by introducing the second foundational principle, the “eternal perspective” principle.
THE ETERNAL PERSPECTIVE
God does not live in our realm of time. He exists outside of time in the place called “eternity.” For the Creator, there is no time and all things in His realm are eternal. In other words, He does not make decisions for “time” and our realm. He makes decisions for “eternal time” and His realm. This is critical to understand because it is very difficult for us to think outside of time, and our time specifically. For instance, using the story of Joseph again, at the end of the story, Joseph understood that it was God who had sent him to Egypt and that it was, in fact, the will of the Creator for him to go through all he had. I’m sure Joseph cried his eyes out in the well and most likely in prison, but in the end he understood God’s perspective. He went from a carnal, time-based viewpoint to an eternal viewpoint. He went from seeing from his set of lenses to seeing through that of Yahweh.
God is not playing for our comfort, security, or even our feelings. Although He cares about each of those, focusing on them is not His ultimate goal. His ultimate goal is to fulfill His reason for creating us in the first place, which is to give of Himself to us until we are fully merged with Him. And the greatest thing He can give us is eternal life and the fullest measure that eternal life has to offer. He’s playing for eternity and trying to get his children to be elevated to their full potential because that potential can only be realized in this lifetime. From His vantage point, because He sees all, knows all, and knows every matrix angle there is or ever could be, He causes or allows things to happen for the sole purpose of bringing us to His desired potential. God was not concerned about Joseph’s comfort in the well or in prison. He was concerned about getting Joseph to where he needed to be so that all Israel would be saved.
It is this concept, when fully understood, that will destroy the question in the title of this article to begin with. Once a person understands that he does not see all from God’s eternal viewpoint and that God is simply working His plan to get as many people to their full, eternal potential, he stops trying to understand “Why?” within the realm of reason and can easily transcend the “Who?” Once he comes to the place where he can bypass the “Why?” and get to the “Who?” he can answer that question with, “The who is God. And God is good all the time and is only concerned with being perfectly benevolent to me.” Once he reaches this point, he has risen above reason and has entered the eternal realm of faith, where the powerful presence of God can actually be felt. Obtaining an eternal perspective will set us up to understand His original intent for allowing “bad” things to happen in the first place, which will be the subject of part 2 of this series. In the meantime, I want to encourage you to read this again and really meditate on the goodness and eternal perspective of God. When that is fully seeded in your spirit, the rest will be easy to comprehend.
Our only goal in part 1 was to establish that the foundational rule of His existence is that He is good all the time and that He operates in eternity. Understanding that His vantage point is radically different from ours due to His having all the knowledge about every situation and scenario is critical to us rising above reason and living by faith. In part 2 we are going to answer the questions many of you might be asking, such as “How could God be benevolent 100% of the time when He clearly punishes those who disobey Him?” and “Are you saying that a child dying is God doing something good?” We will unpack the rest and explore how to deal with traumatic events so as to fully reach our potential in the elevation of the soul.
I am super proud of Mike, the guy I have been discipling. He did something last weekend that proved to me again just how all-in he is in following the Lord. There was a girl that he met in the county jail that came to visit him and when I found out about it and what her background was–I was a bit nervous. He is so new into following Yahweh and following Torah that we hadn’t had the opportunity to talk about how to have a healthy relationship, how to find a spouse and what the Bible says about it. So, I was kind of cringing about having to talk to him about this topic. My conversation with him started out like this:
“Mike, you know how it’s my job to teach you, train you and help you shift your paradigms from doing things your way into doing things His way? Well, I know you had a visit by this girl this past weekend and I have some concerns about where this could be going, what could happen emotionally between you guys and I just want to make sure that you are protected and walk out of here not making the same relationship choices that you’ve made in your past.” (He has had six children by five different woman). Then I went on to give an entire sermon on everything from A-Z on how to allow Yahweh to bring him the right person. I was half way through what I was saying when he piped up, smiled and told me that he told her that he is a completely different person now; that he is following the Bible and that Jesus is #1 in his life. He went on to tell her that he has no time for anyone that doesn’t put God first and that all he wants to do is learn more about Yahweh and follow His commands. He basically in a nice way scared her off. I was shocked.
I was so proud of him for doing this. He did this on his own accord and I would have never even found out about it if I wouldn’t have asked him. Mike is on fire for the Lord and is as straight forward and unashamedly blunt about it, which is why I am spending my time on him. He has a great sense of discernment in the Lord and is one of those people that the angels rejoice in because of the 180 that has happened, and is happening, in his life.
This is a guy that has made every mistake in the book and is now consumed with learning all that he can FROM the Book. He is sickened by his past that has led to so many consequences, but is trusting the Word of the Father that promises regeneration for all who repent and serve Him with their whole heart.
He just got the paperwork from the court to request a public defender so he can fight to not have to give over his fatherly rights to someone else for his one and two year old. Right now they are with foster parents who want to adopt them and force him out of their lives. If this happens he will never be allowed to ever contact them or even know where they live. Mike will be out of prison in three short years and with his new life in Christ, he is excited about being the best dad he can be. He desires what any parent would want…a relationship with his children.
So, please pray for Mike that Yahweh’s will be done in the situation and that Mike will have the right to maintain connection with his own children at some level. In the meantime, he is growing and the Father is mowing down the weeds, planting good seed and strengthening his inner man. There is no better place to grow spiritually than being in prison. Being able to read, study and pray for hours a day with no distractions of life or the world breathing down your throat is a blessing that I never saw coming.
Thank you all for your prayers, support, letters and even tears that many of you have said you have shed on our behalf. There is a reason I am in here beyond what the gov’t claims. There is always a higher agenda in all of our lives operating parallel to our daily tasks. And it is THAT agenda that we are to consider pure joy. Sometimes we just need to go through it to get to it.
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